Learning Daily While Expanding Your Mind

Being humble has significant benefits to your love life.

  We are crazy about being in love.  You’re hooked from the moment your eyes meet and you acknowledge how thrilling it is to see someone else.  Until it is no longer, life is good for us and for them.

  The novelty eventually wears off, and a more permanent situation then takes effect.        Actually, this is perfectly acceptable.  The complete opposite is true: It’s here where the strongest intimacy develops.  In this activity, you learn what it means to be in a team. You’ll also encounter the dips and curves in the road during this phase.

  When you go from first love to happily ever after, what can you do to make the transition smoother?  You begin from a humble place. When you have humility, your love life will improve in five different ways.

  The more ideas you are exposed to, the more tolerant you become.
There is a lot of work involved in being a member of a pair because it is difficult to integrate people with very different points of view.   A willingness to humble yourself will enable you to take the perspective of others. In one way or another, you will either learn something new, or you will grudgingly agree to disagree.   Whether you accept it or not, you will never argue about the results.

  Strength comes from the inside.

  Those who are self-confident refrain from forcing themselves into the spotlight.   What you’re good at is obvious to you; there’s no need to prove anything.   Because of this inner strength, you will experience a lot of relationship turbulence and will have better control over your temper and ability to focus on your relationship goals.


  You’re both listening and learning.

  An individual with humility acknowledges that they have things to learn from others. They are generally more open to listening in conversations and trying to comprehend another person’s point of view.   Teaches you to listen better and appreciate what your partner has to offer.

  You’re slow to react

  When people attack, the humble person lets it slide rather than fighting back.   It thus means they are less likely to get into an argument that would be of no use to either of them and are more likely to be able to defuse a potentially damaging situation.

  When it comes to making decisions, assume you don’t know best.

  Accepting that you have flaws and letting go of the idea that you’re an expert is the sign of humility.   When things go wrong, you will be more willing to learn and even apologize. Losing your ability to conceal your vulnerability when you’re with someone you love will make room for added closeness.

  To be humble can be difficult if you are not accustomed to it.   Always keep in mind that you are not doing it for yourself alone.   It’s no longer about you; there’s a second person in your life who deserves your best efforts. While keeping this in perspective, you will experience a heightened sense of intimacy in your love life.

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